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MAR-16-10 20:36:15
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys RE: Projective Identification
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Achaicus
Male 31-40
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I do think there is a greater ease for those that desire to hide something or trumpet strengths louder in all the types of distance communication.
On the other hand typing anything means my quick wit doesn't come out, if at all. I tend to come across rather much more serious in print than in person mostly due to the slightly more permanent conotation written things have.
People might be slow at the keyboard but not have that trouble with spoken interaction. The more removed from face to face the interaction the more laborious I find it is to communicate. I way over think anything in text, and slightly overthink what I say in a phone conversation. Only in face to face do I really relax. It is just my communication style.
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MAR-16-10 0:3:11
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys RE: Projective Identification
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SeekingHeart
Male 51-60
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Missy, i SUGGEST only that someone's reticence to communicate in open venue is POSSIBLY due to this, OR indicates an incompatibility in personalities (for me anyway). Someone hesitant to post online on open forums (as anonymous as it is...) because they are 'shy' or 'private' would have me observing carefully. Not once did i offer either opinion or conclusion this meant they were 'hiding' someone. Certainly raises this possibility, though.
You have the right to disagree, and i uphold that; but you are 'disagreeing' to something i did not claim...
nor did i suggest anyone was not a "good" person; just that this behavior would raise concerns which i would definitely assess carefully. I might also have truck with your first line "those are not people searching for practical/true mates"...
My presence on these social networking sites as such a 'heartseeker' on FaceBook for example does NOT preclude that I might be looking for a 'true, or practical' mate; further, i'll bet (just as you do, here) they ARE searching for what they BELIEVE is their "true mate", no matter where they look.
Projective identification is all about believing you have found that perfect mate...without realizing it is more a construct on your behalf. Probably happens MORE on these Christian sites (simply because people believe they are better able to choose well, and that the people here might be "better"; both dangerous assumptions).
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MAR-14-10 13:40:26
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Forum: Singles Dating Scam Reports Scammer Alert: white209
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Nannette
Female 51-60
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white209 has been deleted by our scam tracking system.
white209 claims to be:
race: any, age: 34 years old, Male, height: 5' 7", weight: 180 lbs., eyecolor: any, haircolor: any, occupation: MANAGING DIRECTOR.
white209 claims to be from London, london United Kingdom. The IP address indicates they are from - - GHANA.
They repeated the same comments...
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Family & Pets: i am good man who is looking for real friend and i am happy to meet firend.
Hello Dear ,
We want to transfer to overseas ($ 32,000.000.00 USD) from a prime bank here in Ghana, I want to ask you to quietly look for a reliable and honest person who will be capable and fit to provide either an existing bank account or to set up a new Bank a/c immediately to receive this money, even an empty a/c can serve to receive this money, as long as you will remain honest to me till the end of this important business trusting in you and believing in God that you will never let me down either now or in future.
I am Dr Thomas White, Director of International Relation with a bank here in Ghana,during the course of our auditing I discovered a floating fund in an account opened in the bank in 2001 and since 2002 nobody has operated on this account again, after going through some old files in the records I discovered that the owner of the account died without a [heir] hence the money is floating and if I do not remit this money out urgently it will be forfeited for nothing.The owner of this account is Mr.Louis Kennedy , a foreigner, and a sailor, and he died since 2002. and no other person knows about this account or any thing concerning it, the account has no other beneficiary and my investigation proved to me as well that Late Mr.Louis Kennedy was the manager of K.Louis.(Gh). LTD.
We will start the first transfer with Six Million USD [$6,000.000.00] upon successful transaction without any disappoint from your side, we shall re-apply for the payment of the remaining amount to your account,The amount involved is (USD 32M) I want to first transfer $6,000.000 [six Million United States Dollar from this money into a safe foreigners account abroad before the rest, but I don't know any foreigner in my life, I am only contacting you as a foreigner because this money can not be approved to a local person here, without valid international foreign passport, but can only be approved to any foreigner with valid international passport or drivers license and foreign a/c because the money is in US dollars and the former owner of the a/c Mr.Louis Kennedy was a foreigner too, [and the money can only be approved into a foreign a/c.
At the conclusion of this business, you will be given 30% of the total amount, 60% will be for me,5% will be for expenses both parties might have incurred during the process of transferring and 5% will be for orphanage homes.
If you are interested in this offer, kindly get back to me through my private e-mail address (thomas.white209@yahoo.fr) so that I can furnish you with more details and next step to take.
Yours Sincerely,
Dr. Thomas White
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MAR-14-10 13:30:58
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Forum: Singles Dating Scam Reports Scammer Alert: anisteph
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Nannette
Female 51-60
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anisteph has been deleted by our scam tracking system.
anisteph claims to be:
race: White/Caucasian, age: 24 years old, Female, height: 5' 6", weight: 120 lbs., eyecolor: Brown, haircolor: Black, occupation: Student.
anisteph claims to be from Harare, Harare Zimbabwe. The IP address indicates they are from - - -.
They repeated the same comments...
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Family & Pets: ---------------
Health or Disability: --------------
God, Church, Devotion: --------------------
CAN I TRUST YOU?
FOR YOUR KIND ATTENTION
Dear Sir,
Due to my careful search for an honest,reliable and sincere business partner, i got your contact from internet and i ask if you can be trusted not to break an agreement? Still, it took me time to make up my mind to contact you and to offer you this proposal of mine of which my whole life depends on.
My name is Miss Anita Stephen ,the daughter of Mr.David Stephen of blessed memory from Zimbabwe, During the current crises against the farmers in Zimbabwe from the supports of President Robert Mugabe to claim all the white-owned farms to his party members and his followers, he ordered all white farmers to surrender all farms to his party members and his followers.
My father is one of the successful white farmers in our country and because he did not support Mugabe`s ideas, Mugabes supporters invaded his farm and burnt everything in the farm, killing him and made away with a lot of items in my fathers farm.
Before his death, my father had deposited with the FINANCE HOUSE IN ASIA the sum of (USD $6, 5 MILLION). After the death of my father, I decided to move to Republic of SENEGAL where i re-located under political asylum as a refugee to seek for foriegn patner overseas that will assist me to move this money out of THE FINANCIAL HOUSE to your country as i have made up my mind to invest out of my continent (AFRICA).
As an asylum seeker i am not allowed to operate any Bank Account within DAKAR-SENEGAL.I have agreed to offer you 10% of the total sum for your assistance as soon as the money get`s into your account while 5% will be mapped out for any expences that may be incurred in the course of this transaction both local and international.
I want truth and honest to be our watch word in this transaction and please treat this transaction with strictly confidential for the successful out come of it.
Note that this transaction is 100% Risk free and absolutely confidential.my e-mail address is anisteph24@gmail.com
Thanks and God bless you.
Sincerely Yours,
Anita Stephen
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MAR-12-10 18:21:15
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys RE: Projective Identification
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MKMissy01
Female 21-30
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I completely agree with you on the Facebook and Myspace opinion, those are people not searching for practical/true mates.
But your other opinion, that someone is "hiding" someone if they will not join a discussion on an open forum meaning they're hiding something I have to disagree with. There are many good people who are not hiding anything, but who are simply shy and have the preferance of a private chat to share their opinions and such.
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